Saturday, 16 March 2019

How To Be An Alpha Person !! (5 Personality Development Tips)


Hi everyone!!!

Today I want to discuss with you about an interesting topic. Yes, it’s called personality Development. So, do you guys have any idea what personality is???

Is it the way you talk? Or, is it the way how you present yourself to others??

Confused????

Okay, let's get started with what is personality and it's version of emotion or behavior.

What is Personality??

In a simple term, Personality is a typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique. So when we say that somebody has a good personality, we usually mean that he/she is likable, interesting and pleasant to be with.
what is personality? - Personality Development

So, how to become an interesting person???

To become an interesting person you must develop your personality, but the REAL BIG question is, HOW??????????? 

Ways To Develop Personality:

Now, you might have studied that, it takes about only 3 to 5 seconds for someone to form an impression about somebody.

Well, at times you meet new people and do you think to yourself that this person was a little weird, or she was not at all impressive or, are you afraid that you meeting someone that person would also think the same about you????

Well  !!!!!!     Let not these worries bother you.

Here are some tips that will help you to create a good Positive first impression.

Intention :

The first tip that I have for you is to set an intention. Now it is essential for you to set an intention especially when you are gonna attend a big event, which means you know that you're gonna end up meeting with some new people (maybe at a conference or in a social gathering or even a friend's party or for an interview).



These are the places where you’ll definitely end up a meeting with new people. So, when you're getting ready for dress up or when you're driving or traveling to get to the event, make sure that you stay calm and composed and think what kind of interactions you would like to have with these new people.



Now, this is important because this will help you to stay focused and also give you that positive energy for that kind of an event that you would be attending. So do set in a little bit of thought and some practice would help you to form a positive impression.

Appropriate presentation:

The second tip that I have for you is to present yourself appropriately. Now, definitely, your physical appearance does matter because the person that you are meeting for the first time doesn't have a clue about you, doesn't know anything about your experience about your intelligence or about your knowledge.

All he can see is your physical appearance and that would kind of give him an idea about what kind of person you are. So it is important for you to dress up properly.

Well, if you are attending a business meeting or if you are attending some kind of a formal event make sure you are dressed up in formal attire. Again if you are attending a party or if you are attending a social gathering make sure you are dressed up appropriately.

Though this doesn't mean that you have to look like a model. Just perfect grooming and personal hygiene would also help you to attract others. So physical appearance would matter, and that's why it's important that you present yourself appropriately

Be confident:

Third tip that I have for you is to be open and confident. Now body language does matter in fact, it speaks louder than words. So it is important for you to show confidence, but the real question is, how would you do that??

Well, you need to smile when you meet someone for the first time & make sure that you stand tall and project that kind of confidence and of course make good eye contact.
That's extremely important because if you are looking somewhere else when you are meeting someone, it just doesn't show that you are interested in meeting with that new person.
Personality development tips - be confident

So a good eye contact, a firm handshake and smiling would definitely help you to project confidence and please, do avoid your nervous habits, coz we all get nervous meeting someone for the first time. 

So do avoid it like; touching your face or biting nails or playing around with your hair or with your phone. please, avoid it & be confident and this will help you to create a good impression.

Be Humble:

Our tip is to be courteous and attentive. Now it goes without saying that, good manners and being polite to someone definitely helps and helps you to create a very positive impression on someone.

Now your new acquaintances definitely deserve a hundred percent of your attention. Of course, when you are meeting someone be polite, be gentle. Okay!!!!

You don't have to sound very rude and make sure that you let them know that you are listening to them and, of course, you don't start talking about stories, about your collection of shoes or you start talking that- oh my god !!!! How adorable my puppy is!!! You know, these kinds of talks would not make any sense.

So maybe you can talk about current affairs, you can talk about music or you can talk about new movies.

So whatever you talk make sure, has some sense. And of course, make sure that you listen to the other person too

Close on a good note

Our last tip that I would like to share with you is to close on a good note. Now this means you would want the person wanting for more, but how would you do that????

Well, show that you're extremely happy to meet this person. While it's saying goodbye to this person, you can say- 

     “oh!! It was great talking to you, John"         
Or 

you can say -       "It was a pleasure meeting you, John” 
and with this note, you can exchange your business card or email addresses or even your phone numbers. So this would help you to stay in touch with this person.

Well, this brings me to the end of our article & hoping that these tips are helpful to you. But remember, you do not have a second chance to create the first impression. So do follow these tips and it will definitely help you to create a very positive and a very lasting false impression.




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